So most tarot card readers will tell you one of the biggest requests we get for readings are readings about people love lives. I think the most popular questions are:
"Is he/she coming back?"
"Is he/she cheating on me?"
"When will I find the one?"
"I'm in a complicated relationship, how does (significant other's name here) really feel about the relationship?"
And occasionally you get doosies such as:
"Should I get married?"
"Should I get a divorce?"
Now, there is nothing wrong with getting a reading about your love life, but it is important to ask the right questions and be in the right state of mind. So to start before you come in...
-Be clear about what you want to talk about.
These super broad questions such as, "Will I ever get married?" and "tell me about my love life" will not get you the most out of your reading. Think about it, when your getting a professional tarot card reading you are paying for a service, you want to get the most information you can out of it. So instead of asking, "tell me about your love life" why don't you tell US what you would like to know about.
-Come in with an opened mind.
I know you want to hear all about your love life in relation to (Insert person you like), but sometimes it won't be about them. Sometimes the reading might bring up stuff that has to do with someone else, and that is ok. We are trying to tell you about everything, not just want you want to hear.
-Realize that sometimes you are part of the problem.
I'm just going to be frank. When you come to us about problems in your relationship, sometimes YOU might be the problem. Now it takes two to tango, but be opened to the fact that you may not always be as perfect as you might think you are. Come to your reader ready to hear about whatever it is that is going on.
-Don't come in a frenzy.
Worst time to get a reading is when your are in the thick of it. You just found those naked pictures on his phone, girl the next person you call shouldn't be me. Take a minute. Gather your thoughts. I'm not saying be over whatever happened, but at least be at a point where you can think clearly. Because when your that upset, nothing we as readers say is going to be helpful. Your just going to be sad.
-Don't "psychic hop" (even though I know you will).
OK, your gonna do this but I'm just gonna tell you now it is not a good idea. Going to 10 different readers in 12 weeks will not improve your situation, but I know you are going to feel compelled to do so. If you can, resist the urge and save your money.
-Remember you are the one who decides how you deal with this.
We as readers can only give you advice and tell you the highest probability of what will happen if you follow a certain path. But in the end, it's all on you darling.
I hope this helps you when you get your next reading!!!
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